fcancellara wrote:
I know that. I liked the the two year younger sister (1 year younger than me) of a girl from my class in school. She is also in my school, and we saw each other a few times and smiled at each other but never talked, because I was shy and there was no good reason to start talking to her without it being awkward. So after a few months I finally had the balls to send her a friend request on Facebook (I didn't dare to do that earlier because I thought it'd make me look like a creep, I mean, we never talked). She accepted it and we're good friends now.
So, Aidan, just don't give a sh*t and approach a girl when you like her, chances are that she likes (or at least is interested in) you too. In general, a little courage is rewarded.
I am actually quite sad it has to come like this for your generation. Stendhal and other romantics are probably rolling in their graves. Try to read his The Red and the Black, to see what the romance is.
Guys.
Im 15.
As all of you know at my age you walk around a mall and everywhere you look is a girl that looks hot as. Some will be slutty, hard to tell sometimes, andsome will not but are trying too hard to attract guys.
These kind of girls I see and think whats the point of trying. Not cause they are most likely popular and liked by most guys which will mean I wont have a chance but because if you do go out with someone which dresses revealingly then chances are it wont last long and she will break uo with you for another guy.
Another thing is that at age 15 the probability of a relationship lasting into the distant future is very low so ive decided i wont try to go after someone unless i know they are the one.
admirschleck wrote:
Now, i am trying to find myself, problem is that i really want to fall in love. I got enough of "go out, kiss , have a great time / bye-bye".
Pathetic Admir.
If it is just kissing and bye, i would get bored pretty fast too.
But dont worry Admir, SHE will come sooner or later, probably some girl, who is not smiling and attentive at all, but has a place for yyou in her heart, while you dont know it.
In my case, it happened not sooner than when i was 20, only shallow things till that time. And look,it lasts ten years.
Well , something more than "just kiss" , but not sex , definitely. I had a chance for that, but i am proud of myself because i didn't rush , since i really think i am too young for that. Maybe when i get 17-18 .
Admir, glad to see you share my views too. I just think thr kids in my grade who have sex are just, well, immature. It tends to be the same kids who are heavy drinkers. I'm 16 and drink, but very little. I've bearly even been drunk before. When I go out with friends I limit myself to drinking 1 "lite" beer. How bad is teenage drinking among you guys? The people in my grade get fucked-up drunk first chance they get, which annoys me. Here's quite an interesting story that happened this weekend:
aidanvn13 wrote:
Admir, glad to see you share my views too. I just think thr kids in my grade who have sex are just, well, immature. It tends to be the same kids who are heavy drinkers. I'm 16 and drink, but very little. I've bearly even been drunk before. When I go out with friends I limit myself to drinking 1 "lite" beer. How bad is teenage drinking among you guys? The people in my grade get fucked-up drunk first chance they get, which annoys me. Here's quite an interesting story that happened this weekend:
Admir, glad to see you share my views too. I just think thr kids in my grade who have sex are just, well, immature. It tends to be the same kids who are heavy drinkers. I'm 16 and drink, but very little. I've bearly even been drunk before. When I go out with friends I limit myself to drinking 1 "lite" beer. How bad is teenage drinking among you guys? The people in my grade get fucked-up drunk first chance they get, which annoys me. Here's quite an interesting story that happened this weekend:
We were at my friend's place for a braai (barbeque). There was about 15 of us - so just a small group of friends. So there was a bit of alcohol, nut noone was drunk. Then my friend pours one round of tequila shots for everyone. All of a sudden, people start taking bottles off of shelves and start downing random bottels. Like wtf, it's as if they've never seen alcohol before. And then: drunk girls, drunk girls everywhere. Some of the girls started hooking up with eachother and taking bodyshots off of eachother. Someone was taking pictures of all this on one of the girl's phone. The next day, the girl's mom starts going through pictures on her camera and sees all that happened. So, it sucks to be her. Worst is, the girl doesn't understand why her parents grounded her. Fuck, teenagers are dumb these days.
aidanvn13 wrote:
Admir, glad to see you share my views too. I just think thr kids in my grade who have sex are just, well, immature. It tends to be the same kids who are heavy drinkers. I'm 16 and drink, but very little. I've bearly even been drunk before. When I go out with friends I limit myself to drinking 1 "lite" beer. How bad is teenage drinking among you guys? The people in my grade get fucked-up drunk first chance they get, which annoys me. Here's quite an interesting story that happened this weekend:
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yea, yea. I'm on my iPhone, so some dumb mistakes might creep in
aidanvn13 wrote:
Admir, glad to see you share my views too. I just think thr kids in my grade who have sex are just, well, immature. It tends to be the same kids who are heavy drinkers. I'm 16 and drink, but very little. I've bearly even been drunk before. When I go out with friends I limit myself to drinking 1 "lite" beer. How bad is teenage drinking among you guys? The people in my grade get fucked-up drunk first chance they get, which annoys me. Here's quite an interesting story that happened this weekend:
We were at my friend's place for a braai (barbeque). There was about 15 of us - so just a small group of friends. So there was a bit of alcohol, nut noone was drunk. Then my friend pours one round of tequila shots for everyone. All of a sudden, people start taking bottles off of shelves and start downing random bottels. Like wtf, it's as if they've never seen alcohol before. And then: drunk girls, drunk girls everywhere. Some of the girls started hooking up with eachother and taking bodyshots off of eachother. Someone was taking pictures of all this on one of the girl's phone. The next day, the girl's mom starts going through pictures on her camera and sees all that happened. So, it sucks to be her. Worst is, the girl doesn't understand why her parents grounded her. Fuck, teenagers are dumb these days.
I will tell you secret. The parents were doing the same, just nobody had stupid facebook or iphone. It ruins all the fun.
I have of course different relation to alcohol as i am almost 30, but i started to drink somehow after my 18 only, i would advice the younger members of our community to not start much sooner.
Now i drink a beer or a few glasses of wine every day. Not to be drunk (sometimes because of it),but for the taste.
fcancellara wrote:
I know that. I liked the the two year younger sister (1 year younger than me) of a girl from my class in school. She is also in my school, and we saw each other a few times and smiled at each other but never talked, because I was shy and there was no good reason to start talking to her without it being awkward. So after a few months I finally had the balls to send her a friend request on Facebook (I didn't dare to do that earlier because I thought it'd make me look like a creep, I mean, we never talked). She accepted it and we're good friends now.
So, Aidan, just don't give a sh*t and approach a girl when you like her, chances are that she likes (or at least is interested in) you too. In general, a little courage is rewarded.
I am actually quite sad it has to come like this for your generation. Stendhal and other romantics are probably rolling in their graves. Try to read his The Red and the Black, to see what the romance is.
aidanvn13 wrote:
Admir, glad to see you share my views too. I just think thr kids in my grade who have sex are just, well, immature. It tends to be the same kids who are heavy drinkers. I'm 16 and drink, but very little. I've bearly even been drunk before. When I go out with friends I limit myself to drinking 1 "lite" beer. How bad is teenage drinking among you guys? The people in my grade get fucked-up drunk first chance they get, which annoys me. Here's quite an interesting story that happened this weekend:
We were at my friend's place for a braai (barbeque). There was about 15 of us - so just a small group of friends. So there was a bit of alcohol, nut noone was drunk. Then my friend pours one round of tequila shots for everyone. All of a sudden, people start taking bottles off of shelves and start downing random bottels. Like wtf, it's as if they've never seen alcohol before. And then: drunk girls, drunk girls everywhere. Some of the girls started hooking up with eachother and taking bodyshots off of eachother. Someone was taking pictures of all this on one of the girl's phone. The next day, the girl's mom starts going through pictures on her camera and sees all that happened. So, it sucks to be her. Worst is, the girl doesn't understand why her parents grounded her. Fuck, teenagers are dumb these days.
I'm 14. I was at a party not long ago. I had one beer and felt I was messing the words up in my mouth so I thought "nah fuck this" and didn't drink any more.
My parents get very easily worried about it because we have a history of alcoholics and I really don't want to follow that path
One other girl who was at the same party had to be helped home because she had drunk so heavily.
Yeah, there are always some idiot drinking a bit too much. As recently as last tuesday (of all days) I was on a party where a 16 yo girl almost died, reaching much over 3 0/00.
For myself, I like to drink, but I don't need much alcohol to do stupid things; so I don't pour the drinks in in each time. Also I am still a bit serious in training, so I try to minimize the drinking to about once/twice a month (except for the off-season which is now)
Well , "want to get fun; to be crazy etc" are not excuses! I can make people laugh, make some fun, being crazy even without alcohol. Of course, i tried alcohol many times. My bro got 18 about half year ago, and one of my best friends drunk 25 glasses of Jack Daniels.
After party finished he sat in park and started yelling. That was pretty creep, i can say. Of course, after he gone to hospital and he got 3 infusion's everything was right. Tommorow, he had no idea what he was working last night...
I am not sure, but last time i drunk alcohol , it was some wedding, about 2 months ago. Before that, it was 2013 New Year , when i drunk it. So , i am not addicted to it and i am proud! I have many friends smoking,drinking it , but i am out of that.
And , btw, to get on topic again, because of some tradition, and probably of fear that their parents are going to catch them , girls aren't drinking alcohol here. Of course, not 100%, but 95% of U-18 girls are not drinking it. And that's fact that i just love. I just can't imagine myself if i was in situation to catch my EX drunk. I would just go crazy,tell her everything and break up.
NEWS () : Today, in school , i met really awesome girl! I really think i am starting to like her, we greeted up today, and talked a bit, i'll try to go out with her in next few weeks. I think i am slightly falling in love. Edited by admirschleck on 11-10-2013 15:17
