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The "I'm a wuss and I need help from an internet forum to pick up girls" Thread
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| miggi133 |
Posted on 03-05-2013 14:53
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cactus-jack wrote:
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Well, I think the only real advice to give is for you to be more confident and ask her the question, how she feels etc. If you're not going ask, then you loose some.
Obviosuly I wouldn't ask now, but if you become closer again, then you gotta be more confident in yourself.
Well yes, ofcourse, but I'm not going to ask it on facebook or when other people are around.
Unfortunately, I'm not going to play volleyball in the same club as hers, so the chance to see her each week is gone. Though she's going to college in Antwerp next year, so I might visit her sometimes at her student room (= no people around) 
Someone's gonna get laid 
Or look like an utter Buffoon
Do the "Naked Man" and wait for her in her dorm room.
Im pretty sure, thats how baseballover got at least 1 of his 17, already processed, restraining orders... So Id personally advise against it 
EDIT: Wrong name... My bad
Edited by miggi133 on 03-05-2013 18:53
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| Avin Wargunnson |
Posted on 03-05-2013 15:18
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miggi133 wrote:
Im pretty sure, thats how baggieboys got at least 1 of his 17, already processed, restraining orders... So Id personally advise against it
You should have sort out the BB meanings. Who is next, Bridget Bardot? 
Edited by Avin Wargunnson on 03-05-2013 15:18
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| baseballlover312 |
Posted on 03-05-2013 22:05
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Correction, 3.
Spoiler Obviously I'm not serious about this. I'm sure you can all tell that. 
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| jseadog1 |
Posted on 12-05-2013 21:23
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Well guys let me update you on my whole situation.
me and the original girl went to the prom, and we ended up arguing and I ditched her. I found out that there was this other guy there that she had plans to leave with after all along. I know we are just friends, but she didn't even have the guts to tell me before hand. This was May 7th, last weekend, I have not talked to her since then. All of the other girls are also now out of the option.
There is this other girl that I recently started talking too, she keeps to herself in school, and not alot of people like her (she doesn't have many friends) There isn't really a specific reason for people not liking her. She used to be a little on the bigger side, but has been losing weight. She is having trust issues with me, because as I am a popular guy in my school, she is afraid that everything she tells me is going to get spread around the school because of me.
I kind of feel embarrassed to be seen with her, and nobody except us 2 know about us talking, plus im not even sure if she likes me.
Anyways, thought I would give you guys an update.
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| Alakagom |
Posted on 12-05-2013 21:31
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jseadog1 wrote:
Well guys let me update you on my whole situation.
me and the original girl went to the prom, and we ended up arguing and I ditched her. I found out that there was this other guy there that she had plans to leave with after all along. I know we are just friends, but she didn't even have the guts to tell me before hand. This was May 7th, last weekend, I have not talked to her since then. All of the other girls are also now out of the option.
There is this other girl that I recently started talking too, she keeps to herself in school, and not alot of people like her (she doesn't have many friends) There isn't really a specific reason for people not liking her. She used to be a little on the bigger side, but has been losing weight. She is having trust issues with me, because as I am a popular guy in my school, she is afraid that everything she tells me is going to get spread around the school because of me.
I kind of feel embarrassed to be seen with her, and nobody except us 2 know about us talking, plus im not even sure if she likes me.
Anyways, thought I would give you guys an update.
Well that's not good from a start. If you can't change that attitude ( not saying it's wrong, I think most people could kinda relate ), then don't even bother trying.
But I guess you can stay as friends that is.
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| Crommy |
Posted on 12-05-2013 21:35
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jseadog1 wrote:
Well guys let me update you on my whole situation.
me and the original girl went to the prom, and we ended up arguing and I ditched her. I found out that there was this other guy there that she had plans to leave with after all along. I know we are just friends, but she didn't even have the guts to tell me before hand. This was May 7th, last weekend, I have not talked to her since then. All of the other girls are also now out of the option.
There is this other girl that I recently started talking too, she keeps to herself in school, and not alot of people like her (she doesn't have many friends) There isn't really a specific reason for people not liking her. She used to be a little on the bigger side, but has been losing weight. She is having trust issues with me, because as I am a popular guy in my school, she is afraid that everything she tells me is going to get spread around the school because of me.
I kind of feel embarrassed to be seen with her, and nobody except us 2 know about us talking, plus im not even sure if she likes me.
Anyways, thought I would give you guys an update.
Fuck everyone else. If you like being with her, be with her. It sounds like she probably does like you. Given your age, in a couple of years, everyone in your grade will look back at all the bullying and stuff like that and feel guilty that it happened.
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| Miguel98 |
Posted on 12-05-2013 21:40
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Screw society. It's your call, not their's. |
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| wackojackohighcliffe |
Posted on 12-05-2013 21:40
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Giving a shit about what most people think is highly over-rated. Choose happiness. |
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| jseadog1 |
Posted on 12-05-2013 21:42
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When people make fun of her I just chip in, she IS NEVER AROUND DURING THIS, but I feel like im obliged to chip in because it would be weird if people knew I liked her... who knows!
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| wackojackohighcliffe |
Posted on 12-05-2013 21:46
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jseadog1 wrote:
When people make fun of her I just chip in, she IS NEVER AROUND DURING THIS, but I feel like im obliged to chip in because it would be weird if people knew I liked her... who knows!
Well, you're not obliged in any way. Get some balls, you don't have to think the same as your friends all the time. Nor does that seem a particularly nice thing to do. |
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| fcancellara |
Posted on 12-05-2013 21:48
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You say you are a popular guy.
That means you can influence your buddies.
When they are making fun of her again, just tell them that perhaps you guys are picking on her a bit too much perhaps, because she is quite lonely.
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| Crommy |
Posted on 12-05-2013 21:54
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wackojackohighcliffe wrote:
jseadog1 wrote:
When people make fun of her I just chip in, she IS NEVER AROUND DURING THIS, but I feel like im obliged to chip in because it would be weird if people knew I liked her... who knows!
Well, you're not obliged in any way. Get some balls, you don't have to think the same as your friends all the time. Nor does that seem a particularly nice thing to do.
Ok, now I'm saying don't go for it because you don't appear to deserve her. Everyone else is doing it is a very childish and cowardly excuse, and the justification that it's OK just because she isn't there is no justification at all.
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| miggi133 |
Posted on 12-05-2013 22:16
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jseadog1 wrote:
When people make fun of her I just chip in, she IS NEVER AROUND DURING THIS, but I feel like im obliged to chip in because it would be weird if people knew I liked her... who knows!
Wow... Words cannot describe your stupidity!
If you supposedly like her, then dont give a shit about what other people think. What counts is what you think!
Honestly? If you are just being a jerk, to her behind her back, just leave the poor girl alone...
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| fcancellara |
Posted on 12-05-2013 22:21
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As long as you keep on being a jerk to her behind her back you should leave her alone.
If you however stop being a jerk (and really feel regretful for being like that in the past), you could try to hang out with her.
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| jseadog1 |
Posted on 12-05-2013 22:50
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You guys are right, when I actually got to know her, she was very nice, her family is going through some times, she has suffered from abuse in the past, what she has gone through is not right.
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| miggi133 |
Posted on 12-05-2013 22:52
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jseadog1 wrote:
You guys are right, when I actually got to know her, she was very nice, her family is going through some times, she has suffered from abuse in the past, what she has gone through is not right.
That makes your behaviour even worse 
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| jseadog1 |
Posted on 12-05-2013 22:56
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miggi133 wrote:
jseadog1 wrote:
You guys are right, when I actually got to know her, she was very nice, her family is going through some times, she has suffered from abuse in the past, what she has gone through is not right.
That makes your behaviour even worse
Yeah I know, she even said that it made it worse. But thankfully for me she thinks that I was never apart of that, and she thinks I actually am a good guy and have a heart. I really want to make her feel like she actually means something to this world, I am going to try to stick up for her from now on.
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| fcancellara |
Posted on 12-05-2013 22:59
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If you want to improve the world, start with yourself.
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| miggi133 |
Posted on 12-05-2013 23:01
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fcancellara wrote:
If you want to improve the world, start with yourself.
Easier said then done though!
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| fcancellara |
Posted on 12-05-2013 23:03
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That is very true. Try to become more self-concious.
Think of the consequences things you do may have (even if it has positive consequences).
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