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The "I'm a wuss and I need help from an internet forum to pick up girls" Thread
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| Ian Butler |
Posted on 20-04-2013 07:20
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Everyone telling stories here. This is one:
The Sopranos.
Yes, that's right. If you take a good look at The Sopranos, you'll notice that every single woman in Tony's life is a major ball-breaker and constantly gets him into trouble.
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| cactus-jack |
Posted on 20-04-2013 17:53
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My friend is quite annoyed with me because I keep refering to his fiancè as "The Nutcracker".
When it comes to me; I hope the girl I mentioned is "warming" up to me. The one thing I can't stand about love and all that is the constant beating around the bush. He makes a moves, she withdraws. She makes a move, he withdraws.
My way is easier; walk up to a girl, look her straight in the eyes and say "You! Me! Now!".
There's a fine line between "psychotherapist" and "psycho the rapist"
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| TheManxMissile |
Posted on 20-04-2013 18:01
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Again, Cactus you just sound creepy...
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| jseadog1 |
Posted on 20-04-2013 18:22
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TheManxMissile wrote:
Again, Cactus you just sound creepy...
haha I hope you don't actually do that.
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| nils erik |
Posted on 26-04-2013 21:53
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Haha, sounds creepy to write my first post outside the pcm-part of the forum in this thread...
But well, I have a problem:
One year ago I was starting in college (or something, I think that is the english variant  ). I came in touch with a girl in my class, and I will not deny that I was flirting a bit. We got closer, and were often together outside schooltime; several times just the two of us. After some time I felt pretty sure she had feelings; she was always smiling when our eyes met, I could make her laugh, no matter what I did; and she always wanted physical contact with me. Still I didn't know if this was right, so we continued as this for a long time. In january i decided to go for it, and was going to invite her out.
Then of course many were aware of our contact and my flirting, and many of my friends made fun of me because of this. Then the same day as I was going to invite her out one of them faceraped my in a childish, but not bad meant way. Just like "I love *****". All of my friends, and all of her knew about it after this, and more and more people joined the wave of mocking about the situation. You wouldn't think that this would destroy a person, but after the happening she have been silent. Not really angry, but she have barely said a word; not to me, and not to anyone else. I have tried many things to improve her mood, but nothing seems to help. My contact with her is just gone, and she has sort of gone into her own world completely. I feel sorry for her of course; but also worried, and I don't really know what to do. |
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| fcancellara |
Posted on 26-04-2013 22:12
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nils erik wrote:
Haha, sounds creepy to write my first post outside the pcm-part of the forum in this thread...
But well, I have a problem:
One year ago I was starting in college (or something, I think that is the english variant ). I came in touch with a girl in my class, and I will not deny that I was flirting a bit. We got closer, and were often together outside schooltime; several times just the two of us. After some time I felt pretty sure she had feelings; she was always smiling when our eyes met, I could make her laugh, no matter what I did; and she always wanted physical contact with me. Still I didn't know if this was right, so we continued as this for a long time. In january i decided to go for it, and was going to invite her out.
Then of course many were aware of our contact and my flirting, and many of my friends made fun of me because of this. Then the same day as I was going to invite her out one of them faceraped my in a childish, but not bad meant way. Just like "I love *****". All of my friends, and all of her knew about it after this, and more and more people joined the wave of mocking about the situation. You wouldn't think that this would destroy a person, but after the happening she have been silent. Not really angry, but she have barely said a word; not to me, and not to anyone else. I have tried many things to improve her mood, but nothing seems to help. My contact with her is just gone, and she has sort of gone into her own world completely. I feel sorry for her of course; but also worried, and I don't really know what to do.
Try to talk to her and ask what's wrong.
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| nils erik |
Posted on 26-04-2013 22:28
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Of course I have done that She tells me she is fine and nothing is wrong. She have just locked herself in totally. |
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| fcancellara |
Posted on 26-04-2013 22:30
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Then wait for her to talk!
Just tell her that you are there whenever she needs you (cliché)
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| Ian Butler |
Posted on 26-04-2013 22:34
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nils erik wrote:
Of course I have done that She tells me she is fine and nothing is wrong. She have just locked herself in totally.
Women
"I'm fine". Stop saying that when it's not |
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| miggi133 |
Posted on 26-04-2013 23:18
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Hm... I may take a giant Leap here, but I do believe tht there is more to that story...
Such a simple frape cant cause such a dramatic reaction...
Edited by miggi133 on 26-04-2013 23:20
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| cactus-jack |
Posted on 26-04-2013 23:26
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There's a fine line between "psychotherapist" and "psycho the rapist"
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| admirschleck |
Posted on 26-04-2013 23:31
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cactus-jack wrote:
+1
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| Logghje |
Posted on 28-04-2013 21:57
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I like this girl, 17 years old (in November 18), I'm 18 now (in July 19). She plays volleyball just like me, but she plays in another team. She lives 25 km away from me, her volleyball team is about 10 km away from mine.
Last year, from April to June, we followed two courses to become a volleyball coach. We were really growing towards eachother, and sometimes, when I was sitting next to her in the classroom, we looked for several seconds in eachothers eyes and she looked at my lips. I'm pretty sure she liked me as well, but I wasn't sure about that so I didn't dare to make a move. And we never had a moment for our own, there were always other people close to us.
Since those courses, we saw eachother about max. 5 times irl, yesterday being the last time. And also every time at a volleyball arena, and also just a quick conversation of max. 5 minutes. We mostly communicate via facebookchat (she doesn't have a cell phone), and I don't know if she still likes me. I think she does, but I'm not really sure. I have the feeling that we grew away again because we don't see eachother regularly.
But next season, I might change team to the same one as hers. I'm not sure if I may go there though (it's a better team so maybe they think I'm too bad at playing volleyball ) |
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| Alakagom |
Posted on 29-04-2013 08:24
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Well, I think the only real advice to give is for you to be more confident and ask her the question, how she feels etc. If you're not going ask, then you loose some.
Obviosuly I wouldn't ask now, but if you become closer again, then you gotta be more confident in yourself.
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| wackojackohighcliffe |
Posted on 29-04-2013 10:32
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This is a general point to everyone on here wondering if they should make a move: if you have feelings for someone, tell them because you can't really be friends with that hanging over you. Even if he/she says no, at least you can have closure, move on and get back to a position where you can truly be friends. |
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| Avin Wargunnson |
Posted on 29-04-2013 10:44
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wackojackohighcliffe wrote:
This is a general point to everyone on here wondering if they should make a move: if you have feelings for someone, tell them because you can't really be friends with that hanging over you. Even if he/she says no, at least you can have closure, move on and get back to a position where you can truly be friends.
Quoted for truth, make your moves boys!
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| wackojackohighcliffe |
Posted on 29-04-2013 10:48
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Note: unless they're already in a relationship with a very scary partner. |
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| fcancellara |
Posted on 29-04-2013 17:16
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wackojackohighcliffe wrote:
Note: unless they're already in a relationship with a very scary partner.
A.K.A. cactus-jack.
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| cactus-jack |
Posted on 29-04-2013 17:20
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fcancellara wrote:
wackojackohighcliffe wrote:
Note: unless they're already in a relationship with a very scary partner.
A.K.A. cactus-jack.
Hey, I take offence to that!
I'm not in a relationship!
There's a fine line between "psychotherapist" and "psycho the rapist"
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| Avin Wargunnson |
Posted on 30-04-2013 06:18
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He is not a scary boyfriend, cactus-jack just sneaks into bedrooms when the boyfriends are on the nights out!
More of a sandman type...
Edited by Avin Wargunnson on 30-04-2013 06:19
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