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The "I'm a wuss and I need help from an internet forum to pick up girls" Thread
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| Daggen |
Posted on 19-04-2013 23:35
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I'm gonna tell you a depressing story about the girl I'm in love with but extreme friendzoned by.
So it all started back in the fourth grade and uncontrollably I fell in love with her. At first, I thought it felt pretty exciting at first but then I got more and more depressed about it.
I found out she had a boyfriend. That made me freak out. I couldn't control myself. I could sometimes during a lesson just start crying.
I was mad about her. At nights I sometimes cried myself to sleep (still do  ).
But then I became friends with her and we've had a great time together.
I'm not sure if I regret it or if not. I mean if I did get together with her, I would have been the happiest man on earth, but what if we broke up then and never talked to each other again? It's a dilemma, and it's tearing me apart
Edited by Daggen on 19-04-2013 23:39
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| TTspecialist |
Posted on 19-04-2013 23:41
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Risk,try,otherwisely you'll never get what you want (except you want to be best friend) . Girl will never look at you with that eyes (!
Btw , i'm still loving my first gf but i'm putting myself infront of herself this time,it was just enough,we tried few times,it just doesn't work. I know she love me,i am crazy about her even after 2,5 years but ye,she does not want to,i don't want to. Thats something you have to live with! |
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| Daggen |
Posted on 19-04-2013 23:42
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Love is a bitch sometimes
Edited by Daggen on 19-04-2013 23:42
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| TTspecialist |
Posted on 19-04-2013 23:43
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Daggen wrote:
Loves a bitch sometimes
Always.
Well,i am starting to believe in "Only huge loves are sad ones." |
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| TheManxMissile |
Posted on 19-04-2013 23:47
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cactus-jack wrote:
Finally I'm making some headway. She doesn't have the proverbial gonads to be alone with me yet, but she'll learn
That sounds so incredibly sinister....
@TT and Daggen
you both sound like teenage girls!
"If you do it, you'll regret it. If you don't do it, you'll regret it. Either you'll regret it, so you might as well just do it!"
Can't go wrong with that philosophy. Hasn't failed me yet
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| fcancellara |
Posted on 20-04-2013 00:01
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Because everybody here is already telling stories, why not me?
Two years ago I got a crush on a girl from my class. She, a (female) friend of her, a (male) friend of me and myself became close friends on school, we always messed around in the lessons. We had a great time but I never dared to tell her anything.
Then last year the 4 of us went apart really, I stayed good friends with that friend of me and the two girls stayed good friends with each other, but me an my friend had much less contact with the girls. I only had a crush on her for 4 months I think, by the way, it just faded away.
Now this schoolyear, the four of us moved to another class (which is the best class you could wish for, really), and slowly the four of us are becoming closer friends again. That friend of me is very flirty towards the ladies, but the one I didn't have a crush on is in a relationship, and the girl I had a crush on just ignores his flirting. I am more of a reluctant type so I don't really flirt with them.
It often occurs that one of the girls (they both do) is looking at me, or I am looking at one of them, and we notice it, then we smile at each other.
So here's the point: over the last few months I noticed I started to like the girl I had a crush on before again, up to the point that I again have a crush on her.
I don't really know what to do as we are both quite shy, and I don't really know how she thinks about me (well, obviously she thinks I'm a kind and funny person, that's why we're good friends, but I don't know much more than that). So, "just hanging out and seeing if I like her" is not really an option. Any tips/ideas?
I myself was thinking about confessing my love for that girl to her friend and see if she knows more, but I'm not sure about that because I think I first should become better friends with that girl.
At least I want to do something, because I don't think I am falling in love with her twice for no reason.
PS: No, I'm not friendzoned, we're not that good friends.
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| TheManxMissile |
Posted on 20-04-2013 00:11
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"If you do it, you'll regret it. If you don't do it, you'll regret it. Either you'll regret it, so you might as well just do it!" (should put this in my sig, but then it will be too big)
Talk to your crush one-to-one. Don't need to ask her out or anything, but spending some quality time (that sounds lame) together will let you know if you like her.
If you like her, you ask her out. If you are both shy then even better for you to take the chance... Confidence really does work like that (being cocky does not)
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| fcancellara |
Posted on 20-04-2013 00:13
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I don't think it's really possible to have a private talk, as we rarely see each other besides during school.
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| TheManxMissile |
Posted on 20-04-2013 00:15
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fcancellara wrote:
I don't think it's really possible to have a private talk, as we rarely see each other besides during school.
Then either make a reason, or just ask her out (which is basically the same thing)
Or if you are too nervous/scared make a group meeting outside of school.
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| fcancellara |
Posted on 20-04-2013 00:18
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I think I'd rather wait for a party. Everything is easier at parties.
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| TTspecialist |
Posted on 20-04-2013 00:32
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fcancellara wrote:
I think I'd rather wait for a party. Everything is easier at parties.
Exactly! |
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| cactus-jack |
Posted on 20-04-2013 00:35
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TheManxMissile wrote:
cactus-jack wrote:
Finally I'm making some headway. She doesn't have the proverbial gonads to be alone with me yet, but she'll learn
That sounds so incredibly sinister....
Noooo, she'll learn what happens when she is alone with me!
That it's nothing to be afraid of, I mean!
Edited by cactus-jack on 20-04-2013 00:36
There's a fine line between "psychotherapist" and "psycho the rapist"
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| fcancellara |
Posted on 20-04-2013 00:37
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Her twin brother, who is a good friend of me, is also in my class, they are going to celebrate their 16th birthday in one and a half months and I'm invited for sure. I think I'll ask her to dance then, I'm not in a rush 
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| TTspecialist |
Posted on 20-04-2013 00:39
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fcancellara wrote:
Her twin brother, who is a good friend of me, is also in my class, they are going to celebrate their 16th birthday in one and a half months and I'm invited for sure. I think I'll ask her to dance then, I'm not in a rush
Just try to get closer on party,if you see chance for something more,go for that. I had same experience  |
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| TheManxMissile |
Posted on 20-04-2013 00:40
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cactus-jack wrote:
TheManxMissile wrote:
cactus-jack wrote:
Finally I'm making some headway. She doesn't have the proverbial gonads to be alone with me yet, but she'll learn
That sounds so incredibly sinister....
Noooo, she'll learn what happens when she is alone with me!
That it's nothing to be afraid of, I mean!
HAHAHAHA before the edit that was brilliant! Goddamn that made my evening
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| fcancellara |
Posted on 20-04-2013 00:44
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TTspecialist wrote:
fcancellara wrote:
Her twin brother, who is a good friend of me, is also in my class, they are going to celebrate their 16th birthday in one and a half months and I'm invited for sure. I think I'll ask her to dance then, I'm not in a rush
Just try to get closer on party,if you see chance for something more,go for that. I had same experience
Err, what do you mean with 'something more' ?
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| baseballlover312 |
Posted on 20-04-2013 01:22
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TTspecialist wrote:
Risk,try,otherwisely you'll never get what you want (except you want to be best friend) . Girl will never look at you with that eyes (!
Btw , i'm still loving my first gf but i'm putting [b]myself infront of herself[/b] this time,it was just enough,we tried few times,it just doesn't work. I know she love me,i am crazy about her even after 2,5 years but ye,she does not want to,i don't want to. Thats something you have to live with!
That's not how the human anatomy works. |
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| TTspecialist |
Posted on 20-04-2013 01:23
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fcancellara wrote:
TTspecialist wrote:
fcancellara wrote:
Her twin brother, who is a good friend of me, is also in my class, they are going to celebrate their 16th birthday in one and a half months and I'm invited for sure. I think I'll ask her to dance then, I'm not in a rush
Just try to get closer on party,if you see chance for something more,go for that. I had same experience
Err, what do you mean with 'something more' ?
Depends on situation, if you get chance just tell her quietly on her ear that you love her or kiss her at cheek or something else |
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| baseballlover312 |
Posted on 20-04-2013 01:27
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fcancellara wrote:
TTspecialist wrote:
fcancellara wrote:
Her twin brother, who is a good friend of me, is also in my class, they are going to celebrate their 16th birthday in one and a half months and I'm invited for sure. I think I'll ask her to dance then, I'm not in a rush
Just try to get closer on party,if you see chance for something more,go for that. I had same experience
Err, what do you mean with 'something more' ?
I'm hoping he means a kiss...
Edit: My F5 key must be broken.
Edited by baseballlover312 on 20-04-2013 01:27
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| jseadog1 |
Posted on 20-04-2013 02:31
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Thanks guys, me and girl 1 hung out all day, and she explained that she isn't interested in the other guy, people are saying that. She doesn't want a relationship right now, but anyways, we had a great time, and are getting along again.
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