The "I'm a wuss and I need help from an internet forum to pick up girls" Thread
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nils erik |
Posted on 09-10-2013 22:48
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Avin Wargunnson wrote:
I am glad i am coming from that 7% though
Good luck with your relationship nils erik, but we want pictures of her! Otherwise you cant claim the girl being pretty.
You'll get it on a suitable occasion
@Fcanca: Ouch, that hurts! Better luck next time |
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Strydz |
Posted on 09-10-2013 23:33
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The Hobbit wrote:
Am I the only one who finds this thread absolutely hysterical? I dunno why but it's hilarious, and anyway
You are members of an Internet forum about a game about cycling, there is a 93% possibility you are a nerd! thus rendering all the romantic counselling in the world useless....
And the stories are just so funny. You couldn't make this stuff up...
I am like Avin and in the 7% non nerd category I actually can't remember the last time I played PCM, between working, cycling and the fact I myself have been going out with 1 of the bartenders from work for the 2 months means no game time. I just rattle around here mainly for the cycling talk
Edit: oh and well done Nils for getting the lady
Edited by Strydz on 09-10-2013 23:35
Hells 500 Crew and 6 x Everester
Don Rd Launching Place
Melbourne Hill Rd Warrandyte
Colby Drive Belgrave South
William Rd The Patch
David Hill Rd Monbulk
Lakeside Drive Emerald
https://www.everesting.cc/hall-of-fame/
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wackojackohighcliffe |
Posted on 09-10-2013 23:37
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Just being on the internet makes you a nerd. |
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fcancellara |
Posted on 10-10-2013 18:43
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nils erik wrote:
@Fcanca: Ouch, that hurts! Better luck next time
Actually I'm fine with it, it's not such a big deal. Thanks
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Miguel98 |
Posted on 10-10-2013 18:57
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wackojackohighcliffe wrote:
Just being on the internet makes you a nerd.
Does that mean that all the world is a nerd? |
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aidanvn13 |
Posted on 10-10-2013 19:00
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Miguel98 wrote:
wackojackohighcliffe wrote:
Just being on the internet makes you a nerd.
Does that mean that all the world is a nerd?
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admirschleck |
Posted on 10-10-2013 19:02
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I got some problem , and it's getting serious , pretty much. Not to be selfish, but as new generation came to high school, some of really awesome girls started to like me. Smiling whenever they meet me, greeting me up and all of that. As i was always the guy that comes first to girlfriend, first to greet girl and start conversation and all of that. I always thought i am not that handsome (look at signature!) , somehow things changed - I have no idea why and how, though.
I really like one of them, but i have problem that i can't fall in love. It's something abnormal. Last time i fell in love was 3 years ago, and now i am not feeling anything to any girl. I came out with that girl , but nothing, i really like her, but loving her is something unreachable, for me. I decided to stop conversation with her ,since she's only going to get sad/depressed by my fucking awful behavior. And i feel that was just right. Now, i am trying to find myself, problem is that i really want to fall in love. I got enough of "go out, kiss , have a great time / bye-bye".
Pathetic Admir.
Edited by admirschleck on 10-10-2013 19:02
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aidanvn13 |
Posted on 10-10-2013 19:18
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admirschleck wrote:
I got some problem , and it's getting serious , pretty much. Not to be selfish, but as new generation came to high school, some of really awesome girls started to like me. Smiling whenever they meet me, greeting me up and all of that. As i was always the guy that comes first to girlfriend, first to greet girl and start conversation and all of that. I always thought i am not that handsome (look at signature!) , somehow things changed - I have no idea why and how, though.
I really like one of them, but i have problem that i can't fall in love. It's something abnormal. Last time i fell in love was 3 years ago, and now i am not feeling anything to any girl. I came out with that girl , but nothing, i really like her, but loving her is something unreachable, for me. I decided to stop conversation with her ,since she's only going to get sad/depressed by my fucking awful behavior. And i feel that was just right. Now, i am trying to find myself, problem is that i really want to fall in love. I got enough of "go out, kiss , have a great time / bye-bye".
Pathetic Admir.
I'd say you'd fall in love with that girl in time. You will reach a stage where you might feel that you fall in love with her. Well at least that's my opinion.
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fcancellara |
Posted on 10-10-2013 19:25
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Indeed, that's a good tip.
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aidanvn13 |
Posted on 10-10-2013 19:27
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Now with me, I'm sort of shy talking to girls for the first time. I guess I just lack confidence. Like, I have no problem talking to a girl I know well, but if I had to go up to a chick in the mall or something, it's a different story. I mean, it's not that I'm ugly or fat, but I am attractive - that's what I've been told, but I mean I'm not the next supermodel.
At this stage I'm no longer interested in a relationship, but rather just something "less serious". I've just got different commitments to focus on...
What I need help with though, is what do I do when I see a girl I find attractive? Previous gfs I've know from school or met somewhere before hand. I want to approach a girl, but I don't want to seem like a man-whore and neither do I want to seem like a douche that doesn't know what he's doing. Like I said, I'm not exactly over confident. I tend to be more confident after a bit of alcohol (not drunk though, I'm not a big drinker)
This is the kinda hint I need from a girl when she likes me:
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fcancellara |
Posted on 10-10-2013 19:44
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I know that. I liked the the two year younger sister (1 year younger than me) of a girl from my class in school. She is also in my school, and we saw each other a few times and smiled at each other but never talked, because I was shy and there was no good reason to start talking to her without it being awkward. So after a few months I finally had the balls to send her a friend request on Facebook (I didn't dare to do that earlier because I thought it'd make me look like a creep, I mean, we never talked). She accepted it and we're good friends now.
So, Aidan, just don't give a sh*t and approach a girl when you like her, chances are that she likes (or at least is interested in) you too. In general, a little courage is rewarded.
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admirschleck |
Posted on 10-10-2013 19:51
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Guys, i can notice that you're too shy. Just get balls and start talking to girls. Every girl likes when you greet her firstly , or when you tell some good joke or something else. Sending her request after few months? C'mon , that's maybe me , but i would send her request in next week, if not same day.
You just have to feel free with girls, all of them just adore when they get attention, especially from some pretty guy (as you guys - fcanc, aidan). And, i am not joking.
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wackojackohighcliffe |
Posted on 10-10-2013 19:57
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Just think of the last time some random person came up and had a chat with you. As long as they weren't mental, I'm betting you actually liked it. So it should be no different if you go up and do the same to some girl, especially seen as girls are less likely to make the first move so will often take on anyone who makes the first move on them. |
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jph27 |
Posted on 10-10-2013 20:22
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Pfft, I need the aforementioned indications plus a flashing neon sign and it to be shouted through a loudspeaker.
But seriously, I'm hopeless. |
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wackojackohighcliffe |
Posted on 10-10-2013 20:25
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jph27 wrote:
Pfft, I need the aforementioned indications plus a flashing neon sign and it to be shouted through a loudspeaker.
But seriously, I'm hopeless.
In which case, try it on with every girl you find remotely attractive. It'll come off pretty soon and very few will be offended unless you're an absolute munt. |
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Miguel98 |
Posted on 10-10-2013 20:31
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I won't comment on my love stories. Would take forever, and a good laughs from the people here in PCM.Daily. |
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kumazan |
Posted on 10-10-2013 20:35
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wackojackohighcliffe wrote:
jph27 wrote:
Pfft, I need the aforementioned indications plus a flashing neon sign and it to be shouted through a loudspeaker.
But seriously, I'm hopeless.
In which case, try it on with every girl you find remotely attractive. It'll come off pretty soon and very few will be offended unless you're an absolute munt.
Yep, the brute force algorithm never fails when you are in need.
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wackojackohighcliffe |
Posted on 10-10-2013 20:53
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kumazan wrote:
wackojackohighcliffe wrote:
jph27 wrote:
Pfft, I need the aforementioned indications plus a flashing neon sign and it to be shouted through a loudspeaker.
But seriously, I'm hopeless.
In which case, try it on with every girl you find remotely attractive. It'll come off pretty soon and very few will be offended unless you're an absolute munt.
Yep, the brute force algorithm never fails when you are in need.
I'm nothing if not exhaustive |
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Avin Wargunnson |
Posted on 11-10-2013 05:49
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Miguel98 wrote:
wackojackohighcliffe wrote:
Just being on the internet makes you a nerd.
Does that mean that all the world is a nerd?
Just some 36% globally according to wiki. We tend to forget how much people dont even know what plenty of water is, internet is not their concern at all.
https://en.wikiped...rnet_usage
And good luck jph27, i think it is all about confidence. Confidence brings results.
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Avin Wargunnson |
Posted on 11-10-2013 05:54
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admirschleck wrote:
Now, i am trying to find myself, problem is that i really want to fall in love. I got enough of "go out, kiss , have a great time / bye-bye".
Pathetic Admir.
If it is just kissing and bye, i would get bored pretty fast too.
But dont worry Admir, SHE will come sooner or later, probably some girl, who is not smiling and attentive at all, but has a place for yyou in her heart, while you dont know it.
In my case, it happened not sooner than when i was 20, only shallow things till that time. And look,it lasts ten years.
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