|
The "I'm a wuss and I need help from an internet forum to pick up girls" Thread
|
| Jakstar22 |
Posted on 16-04-2013 07:06
|
Team Leader
Posts: 7294
Joined: 11-04-2012
PCM$: 200.00
|
Avin Wargunnson wrote:
jseadog1 wrote:
She is the kind of person that will get all mad and stop talking to me
So why still even think about dating her, or think about her as person good for relationship? She is hanging out with multiple guys, also with your good friends and you cant talk to her, because she would be mad at you. This is the girl you want? Find some chick that will have eyes only for you and will love you with all her soul. If real love is what you are looking for. If you are looking just for "fun", date those "easy" girl.
What is important at least for me, is that friendship is stronger than some dating. Only true love is stronger than friendship. So if a girl is able to stand between you and your friend and hang out with both, you two guys should kick her ass and stay friends, that will anyway last longer than some kind of shallow relationship with girls heart not fully commited to you. 
+1
Couldn't have said it any better
|
| |
|
|
| Atlantius |
Posted on 16-04-2013 08:28
|
Team Leader
Posts: 6795
Joined: 21-07-2010
PCM$: 200.00
|
jseadog1 wrote:
She is the kind of person that will get all mad and stop talking to me
Easy, then you don't want to start a relationship with her - trust me I speak of experience
Ask her on a (proper) date and see how it goes.
May the force be with you!
|
| |
|
|
| Ad Bot |
Posted on 23-11-2024 10:06
|
Bot Agent
Posts: Countless
Joined: 23.11.09
|
|
| IP: None |
|
|
| Jakstar22 |
Posted on 17-04-2013 02:34
|
Team Leader
Posts: 7294
Joined: 11-04-2012
PCM$: 200.00
|
I wonder how Jseadog is doing.
|
| |
|
|
| Avin Wargunnson |
Posted on 17-04-2013 06:28
|
World Champion
Posts: 14236
Joined: 20-06-2011
PCM$: 300.00
|
He was not here to reply, so either very bad, or very good. 
|
| |
|
|
| 9-Ball |
Posted on 18-04-2013 02:51
|
Domestique
Posts: 477
Joined: 16-08-2008
PCM$: 200.00
|
Senor ... tell Girl 1 exactly how you feel and how you've been feeling and how you've behaved as a result. She will react in one of several ways which will clarify your future life:
1. She will be touched/happy and reveal a similar feeling and off you go, creating bunnies in the fields, before divorce at 40, an alcohol problem and death by liver dysfunction at 55. Still, you got the girl!
2. She'll laugh at you and spit in your face - this is clarity and closure. You will feel horrible and remain attached to the idea that she is who you wish she would be rather than who she actually is. Time will pass. You'll come to accept it, despite lingering pain. You'll meet a fabulous, tall buxom brunette at a skiing/beer festival on Vermont in 2021 and you'll realize, with hindsight, it was all part of growing through life and into your own skin (sorry).
3. She'll do something between 1 and 2, it will meander on a bit and then come to a less ugly version of 2.
Good luck, and remember the 'easy' girl isn't just an 'easy girl'. Books, covers, judgement, apples and beholders, etc. Happy hunting. 
Edited by 9-Ball on 18-04-2013 02:53
It was eleven more than necessary.
Jacques Anquetil
|
| |
|
|
| 9-Ball |
Posted on 18-04-2013 02:53
|
Domestique
Posts: 477
Joined: 16-08-2008
PCM$: 200.00
|
[Maybe she cooked and ate him]
It was eleven more than necessary.
Jacques Anquetil
|
| |
|
|
| Jakstar22 |
Posted on 18-04-2013 06:42
|
Team Leader
Posts: 7294
Joined: 11-04-2012
PCM$: 200.00
|
9-Ball wrote:
Senor ... tell Girl 1 exactly how you feel and how you've been feeling and how you've behaved as a result. She will react in one of several ways which will clarify your future life:
1. She will be touched/happy and reveal a similar feeling and off you go, creating bunnies in the fields, before divorce at 40, an alcohol problem and death by liver dysfunction at 55. Still, you got the girl!
2. She'll laugh at you and spit in your face - this is clarity and closure. You will feel horrible and remain attached to the idea that she is who you wish she would be rather than who she actually is. Time will pass. You'll come to accept it, despite lingering pain. You'll meet a fabulous, tall buxom brunette at a skiing/beer festival on Vermont in 2021 and you'll realize, with hindsight, it was all part of growing through life and into your own skin (sorry).
3. She'll do something between 1 and 2, it will meander on a bit and then come to a less ugly version of 2.
Good luck, and remember the 'easy' girl isn't just an 'easy girl'. Books, covers, judgement, apples and beholders, etc. Happy hunting.
Well said Oh and I like the Skiing and Beer festival one
|
| |
|
|
| jseadog1 |
Posted on 19-04-2013 02:11
|
Grand Tour Champion
Posts: 9595
Joined: 18-07-2010
PCM$: 13552.00
|
I am here guys!! She is extremely bi-polar, and basically argues with me everyday, then acts nice 10 minutes later.. She is mentally draining me, I am being a dick to everyone, and in a bad mood all day. She is normal, and basically committed to this other guy once prom is over May 5th. I have been talking to the girl who is "easy", and we are getting along great talking like friends, and she is putting me in a better mood....
I just don't know what to do, I want the original girl more, but I feel like I would be happier and have a better chance with the second one, although she may cheat on me easily...
PCM.Daily Survivor Season 2 Fan Favorite Winner
PCM.Daily NFL Fantasy Football Champion: 2012
PCM.Daily NHL Prediction Game Champion: 2013
PCM.Daily NFL Prediction Game Champion: 2012, 2013, 2015, 2016, 2021
|
| |
|
|
| Levi4life |
Posted on 19-04-2013 02:21
|
Grand Tour Specialist
Posts: 4882
Joined: 16-03-2007
PCM$: 200.00
|
High school is stupid. Girl 2. Not because she's easy. It's because you are probably a senior, and therefore you are gone in 2 months, so fuck it. When I graduated from high school, I knew two couples who got engaged straight out of it. One girl was preggers and daddy had a shotgun, but not a coat hanger, and the other couple broke up before they got married. Honey badger it. College is a better place to meet people with whom you might actually have a chance at developing an adult relationship. It's not worth stressing about. Honey badger.
|
| |
|
|
| valverde321 |
Posted on 19-04-2013 03:29
|
World Champion
Posts: 12986
Joined: 20-05-2009
PCM$: 530.00
|
The fact she's easy shouldn't be anything more than a bonus. If you like her for who she is, and you have fun with her and she makes you feel better, it sounds like a no-brainer to me. Of course its never that easy, but yeah.
|
| |
|
|
| Avin Wargunnson |
Posted on 19-04-2013 05:59
|
World Champion
Posts: 14236
Joined: 20-06-2011
PCM$: 300.00
|
I agree with Levi. "Enjoy" your time that remain at high school with someone who is actually worth it and make you mood better all the time (and she can maybe give you more of a nice time soon)  not someone who is acting like playing in Oscar awarded romance (with old cliche of going to prom with one guy and loving the other guy).
You will have a lot of time in the future to build some serious relationship...
Edited by Avin Wargunnson on 19-04-2013 05:59
|
| |
|
|
| mowinckel91 |
Posted on 19-04-2013 06:57
|
Breakaway Specialist
Posts: 995
Joined: 24-02-2007
PCM$: 200.00
|
Think a real PUA-forum will help you more with this than the PCMDaily community |
| |
|
|
| Atlantius |
Posted on 19-04-2013 07:46
|
Team Leader
Posts: 6795
Joined: 21-07-2010
PCM$: 200.00
|
Definetely girl 2. Not because she is easy, but because she makes you feel happy and girl 1 makes you feel miserable...
|
| |
|
|
| Levi4life |
Posted on 19-04-2013 08:32
|
Grand Tour Specialist
Posts: 4882
Joined: 16-03-2007
PCM$: 200.00
|
You guys are over thinking this. Honey badger. no shits given.
|
| |
|
|
| baseballlover312 |
Posted on 19-04-2013 13:37
|
Tour de France Champion
Posts: 16429
Joined: 27-07-2011
PCM$: 10438.70
|
Are there only two girls out there? If the first girl makes you miserable, then don't go for it.
With the second girl, just make it clear what exactly you want, and if she cheats on you as you say, second chances should not be given. |
| |
|
|
| cactus-jack |
Posted on 19-04-2013 14:41
|
Classics Specialist
Posts: 3936
Joined: 31-07-2009
PCM$: 200.00
|
Levi4life wrote:
You guys are over thinking this. Honey badger. no shits given.
Hump everything in sight.
There's a fine line between "psychotherapist" and "psycho the rapist"
|
| |
|
|
| Ste117 |
Posted on 19-04-2013 17:04
|
Classics Specialist
Posts: 3684
Joined: 21-02-2009
PCM$: 200.00
|
Well i really like my sisters mate, bear in mind im 21and my sister is 18, well we get on she seems to enjoy talking to me and even one night she went, look you get to see me without makeup, where is stumbled and didnt say anything, now she has found a bf and im left kicking myself because yet again i couldnt tell her i like her, mainly because im scared of the age gap.
MG Team manager Team Ticos Air Costa Rica
 |
| |
|
|
| fcancellara |
Posted on 19-04-2013 17:09
|
Grand Tour Specialist
Posts: 5194
Joined: 18-08-2011
PCM$: 200.00
|
21 and 18 shouldn't be too much of a problem.
|
| |
|
|
| baseballlover312 |
Posted on 19-04-2013 17:47
|
Tour de France Champion
Posts: 16429
Joined: 27-07-2011
PCM$: 10438.70
|
For a minute there I thought you were into your sister. |
| |
|
|
| Crommy |
Posted on 19-04-2013 17:48
|
World Champion
Posts: 10018
Joined: 29-11-2006
PCM$: 200.00
|
Half your age plus seven. You're fine.
|
| |
|
